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As we listen to the wide-spread media coverage of the unravelling reports of child sexual abuse at Penn State, many of us feel frustrated and angry, wondering "How did it go unreported for so long?" Child sexual abuse is a crime that thrives in a climate of silence, secrecy, and shame. 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually assaulted before their 18th birthday. Less than 10% of these children will ever tell anyone what happened to them. To break this silence, we must stay informed and know what to do to keep children safe.
If you witness a child being abused in any way, anywhere, at any time, CALL 911 immediately. If you suspect someone may be abusing a child, call the Connecticut Department of Children and Families (DCF) Hotline at 1-800-842-2288.
There are many reasons why adults may feel reluctant to get involved. They may be concerned they have misinterpreted a situation or worry about the consequences to an offender who is a family member, friend, or respected member of the community. In some situations, like the child who is abused, the adult who witnesses or suspects abuse, may be afraid of the offender or worry that they will not be believed. It may feel unsafe or difficult to intervene personally, but getting authorities involved immediately is crucial to preventing further abuse and to getting abused children the help they need. Remember, you don’t have to intervene directly, you just have to call. Reports to DCF can be made anonymously and there is no liability for good faith calls.
Most situations involving child sexual abuse are complicated, which is why the Child Sexual Abuse Response Team of Lower Fairfield County was founded 22 years ago. The team responds to reports of suspected child sexual abuse with a focus on assuring appropriate safeguards are taken to protect children who have been victimized and that false allegations are responded to expediently and appropriately.
Most child victims never report abuse. It is our job, as adults, to protect vulnerable children. We must work together to give victimized children a voice. Suspicious activity needs to be reported – if you see something, say something.
Ellie Hartog, MSW
Coordinator, Child Sexual Abuse Response Team of Lower Fairfield County
Child Guidance Center of Southern Connecticut |
